• I think it’s good to have this mindset change where you see the child as something that benefits you rather than harms you or out here to ruin your plans, for example
  • Just like a lot of things in life. That’s all about perspective and how you frame certain events that happen to you
    • This reminds me of how sometimes twins can live very similar childhoods, but because they process things differently, they end up being a completely different human. This is what makes us human: Our complexities.
  • also ties to the idea of being uncomfortable and it’s importance