• my time is too valuable to spend it with people I don’t align with
    • it’s just not worth the time and mental energy you spend on them.
  • I try to treat everyone equally but not even our instincts tell us to do that sometimes.
    • there’s nothing wrong with respecting people differently
    • if you want to be able to be good at finding good friends and having good friends, it’s an essential skill to be able to let go of people you don’t like and however way and push to meet up with people you do like
  • The minimal energy you spend on people that are not worth it is far worse than people who spend so much energy/time/money on the right people.