- was talked abt in:
- just like in tasks, if something is too easy. In other words, if a girl is not very attractive. You’d be too bored. You’d have no motivation to do the task. In other words, approach and put effort into speaking and listening
- if I’m thinking too much about a girl and sort of feeling desperate about wanting her, That’s when I’m unable to remain calm and as a result lose control of the situation and go on autopilot mode. Which basically means I’m just reacting to my emotions and not to what they’re saying because I’m no longer being mindful
- I also start acting towards a certain end goal(means to an end), which is something that a lot of men do but I’m so against