my default is everyone is better and more valuable than me
I didn’t respect myself
I had to prove it to myself that I’m just as or more valuable than the people around me
The solution, in very simple terms, is to find the root of the problem. Everyone has their own reasons for not being able to connect with people. You need to first find that thing that’s stopping you then start working on overcoming. In your pursuit of finding that root problem. You will learn so much about yourself. So not only the journey is rewarding, but also the destination
For example, my root that i discovered a year or 2 back, was the fact that I didn’t value myself. I didn’t have any self-respect. My default is everyone is better and more valuable than me. In other words, I had no confidence in myself
And the solution for that is simple: Be more confident in yourself. But of course, it’s not that easy. It took me making all these useful videos on youtube and spending thousands of hours building something useful to society to finally be able to value & respect myself just as much as I do for others. So in some way I balanced the playing field