- There were 3 instances where I had an amazing opportunity to either:
- connect
- complement
- jokingly flirt/make them laugh
- with a stranger
- I missed out on all of them because I had a split second where I started thinking and by that time, it was too late. It wouldn’t seem natural
- Is this an excuse? Sometimes it is, but other times I like to also set an example for others.
- I want to show them that I’m spontaneously doing this
- sometimes without even knowing the person(or looking at their face). Especially with a Women. To show them that there are no strings attached to my compliment
- If I take action after thinking it through, I risk being perceived having ulterior motives.
- I’m tryna show woman that there exist men like me who do it not as a means to an ulterior motive
- they just wanna make a girl smile and get some sort of energy boost(from dopamine, oxytocin, testosterone, adrenaline, serotonin, endorphins, norepinephrine, etc…)