when a man first looks at a(n) (attractive) woman, their brain tells them to go approach her. But then after a few milliseconds, your brain reminds you of your current reality.
that reality could be anything from you believing she’s too good to you to societal expectations and her and everyone around thinking you’re a creep or worse
that act of wanting to do something but then telling yourself you can’t is dangerous.
believing and conforming to that reality is mentally toxicating and it’s effects will ripple to other aspects of your life
For that reason, it’s essential to have a reason that you can always remind yourself of when you’re faced with this situation