- I’ve noticed that I sometimes I make the Convo reach a point where it’s TMI. That’s the best way I can explain it.
- I either share a little too much info (e.g: when I shared the story of me asking an adopted woman where she’s from, I tried hard to justify my reasoning behind asking strangers these random, personal Qs).
- Sure it took like 10 seconds but you don’t wanna fill ur stories with shit like that or else it’s gonna contaminate the whole thing
- The other thing is me asking too many binary Qs, especially consecutively. As if we’re in some sort of interview. I started feeling second hand defensiveness
- a lot of the times, the answer is kinda obvious. But sometimes the reason I ask them is because I got nothing else to ask so I ask it to keep the conversation going.