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The Power of Habits: Unlocking Your Full Potential

We are creatures of habit. Every action we take, from the moment we wake up to the way we structure our day, is rooted in habits. The beauty of this? Habits can be changed. If you believe you can change your habits, you can become whoever you want to be.

Take my own experience, for example. I don’t eat in the mornings. It’s a habit I developed over time, and now it feels natural. It’s like a muscle—the more you work on it, the stronger it gets. That’s the key takeaway:

1. Everything is a habit.
2. Everything is a muscle.

It takes time to strengthen a habit, but if you stick with it day in and day out, it becomes effortless. People often talk about the 21-day rule for forming habits. While it’s not a strict rule, it’s a good guideline to keep in mind.

How Habits Shape Our Diet

Let’s focus on how habits influence what we eat and when we eat. Growing up, my parents always emphasized that breakfast was the most important meal of the day. Every morning, I’d have milk, eggs, and a sandwich before school. It was a routine, something I did without thinking.

But when I went to university, I decided to try something different. Instead of eating right away, I used my mornings for deep, focused work. The first few days were tough, but my body slowly adapted. Now, three years later, I still follow this habit. It’s positively influenced my ability to get things done in the morning.

This change didn’t happen overnight. I started by diving into work for the first two hours of my day and then rewarding myself with food. Over time, I noticed I didn’t even need breakfast. Waiting two, three, or even four more hours didn’t make me feel hungry. That’s when it hit me: once you change your habits and get used to a new routine, the old one fades away.

The Role of Environment

One of the most eye-opening moments came when I went back home. Being in my old environment—back with my family, in the same setting where I grew up—brought back my old habits. Suddenly, I felt the urge to eat breakfast again. It was like muscle memory kicking in.

This experience taught me just how much our environment shapes our habits. It’s not just about food—this applies to anything you want to change in life. If you can control your environment, you can use it to your advantage.

When I returned to university, I fell right back into my routine of skipping breakfast. That’s another lesson: even if you lose a good habit, you can easily bring it back by exposing yourself to the right environment.

Your environment affects your mindset, your behavior, and ultimately, your habits. And when you change your habits, you change who you are. That’s how powerful it is.

Overcoming Deep-Rooted Habits

One of the hardest habits I’ve had to change was my addiction to pornography. It was rooted in deep subconscious motivations I wasn’t even aware of. The solution? Understanding myself more—understanding my motivations, why I did certain things. From there, I learned how to fight it, how to stop myself when push came to shove.

Sometimes, you change habits without even noticing. It’s often because of your environment and the people you surround yourself with. This can be a blessing or a curse, depending on how you use it. That’s why it’s essential to be mindful of who you surround yourself with. Their habits will naturally influence yours, whether you like it or not.

One thing I learned while overcoming my addiction was the importance of identity. Instead of saying, “I’m trying to quit pornography,” I reframed it to, “I am someone who does not consume pornography.” This shift in language reinforced my identity as someone who had already overcome the habit.

The Power of Focus and Tracking

It’s hard to transform yourself drastically in several areas of your life all at once. Instead, focus on one major habit that can fix several problems you’re facing. For me, it was pornography. It took years, but the rewards have carried me for the rest of my life. Not just because I don’t do it anymore, but because the mental battles I overcame equipped me with the strength to tackle other challenges.

Tracking your habits is crucial. Find a system that works for you—whether it’s an app, a notebook, or a whiteboard. The key is to care about the results. If you don’t care, the tracking system won’t work.

Visualization and Self-Belief

Visualization is a powerful tool. It’s tied to self-identity. If you can visualize yourself doing things you’ve never done before, you open yourself up to the idea that you’re capable of becoming that person.

For example, if you want to confidently present in front of a class, visualize it. Feel the emotions, deeply connect with the person you’re imagining. Over time, your brain will believe it, and it will manifest.

Self-Awareness and Growth

Self-awareness is crucial. It allows you to notice your flaws and be honest with yourself. Many people are blind to their flaws because they lack self-awareness. This is especially true for men, who often believe they’re always right. This mindset can lead to problems in relationships and personal growth.

Empathy and self-awareness go hand in hand. They influence your ability to change and develop new habits.

Take Action

Habits are the foundation of who we are. They shape our lives, our behaviors, and our identities. If you want to unlock your full potential, start by changing your habits. Focus on one at a time, track your progress, and surround yourself with the right environment.

Believe in your ability to change. Visualize the person you want to become. And most importantly, take action. Start today.

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