- I have recently been realizing a recurring theme when I talk to friends—especially when I get to go deep with these friends.
- they share things that I know someone else would deeply connect with—but they don’t know it.
- it’s kind of unfortunate to see these things because in some way it’s wasted potential
- they could bond over this thing but unfortunately they don’t bring it up around each other and I’m not going to point it out to them because I’d be revealing personal info about them that I’m not sure they’d like me to share it to others
- I guess the solution to that is just asking them: “hey, I recently met with someone who shared a similar childhood experience as you. I think you guys would have a lot to bond over. Should I mention to the other person that you’d be interested to meet?”
- if they say yes, I’ll ask the same thing to the other person. If they also say yes, I’ll introduce them to each other
- Here’s the thing, that takes a lot of effort to execute and succeed in. Why tho?
- I have to get out of my way to bring up something they shared with me (we have to be alone)
- I would need to be close to both so they would trust me in my suggestion.