• something I read a while back: 2 ways you can bond with people.
  • From my experience I generally build a strong connection with people who have overcome similar struggles as me or knowledgeable in things that I’d like to be knowledgeable in.
    • E.g. I’d like to get better at writing. So I’d want to be friends with ppl good at it. A.k.a I’m more likely to put effort into continuing that friendship after initially meeting. But that might not be everyone? What do you think?

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