Context
- taking the UBahn aka subway after my trip(Spontaneous trip to the Dolomites Italy)
- I sit in front of a lady reading a book
- a min or 2 into the ride I get a sneak peak of the first letter and a half “At”. After 5 seconds of debating if I should actually look like I’m trying to look at the book. My Curiosity muscle pushed me to do that and became more confident that it’s Atomic Habits so, without wasting anymore time, I ask her and yup it is.
- for a 3 min Convo, we covered A LOT it went so well. Like if we were in TV show called “talk to strangers for 3 minutes and decide who you’re going to marry out of 100s of contestants”, I would definitely be her pick hands down. She def older than me tho (mid 20s?)
- Her fav book is Manifest - 7 steps…
- I told her that mines is TSAONGAF and why it is. I think that itself says a lot about me and my personality rn
Feelings
Thoughts
- interesting thought came up to my mind.
- I feel like after having that beautiful conversation + leaving without getting any of her contact information, it would lead her to believe that I am not willing to pursue her because of her looks because it clearly showed that we could work out
- This leads me to believe that the next time I face a similar situation where I don’t want their contact information, I would like to end with A compliment on their looks (if I truly believe it) to affirm them that I’m not “rejecting” Them coz of their looks