The Power of Connection
I watched a video on Instagram about kids on stage looking for their parents in the audience. Their faces were full of worry and anticipation, but once they spotted their parents, their demeanor changed completely—they smiled and laughed, transforming into extremely happy people. It reminded me of how I feel when surrounded by familiar faces, especially friends. When I know and trust the people around me, I’m more comfortable being myself. This scenario relates to those kids on stage; despite their parents being at a distance, the connection still empowers them.
This thought process brought me to the realization of how powerful and rare connections are. They’re essential in providing comfort and freedom to be ourselves. Reflecting on my own childhood, I remember being on stage, secretly searching for my parents. I wouldn’t show it outwardly, but the need for reassurance was there.
Thoughts on Attachment and Independence
This all reminded me of the psychological theory on attachment styles, which describes secure, anxious, and avoidant attachments. As a child, I might have had an anxious attachment, feeling uneasy when my parents weren’t present but not showing it outwardly. I realize this trait has evolved into a reluctance to rely on others and seek help.
Reflecting on Future Aspirations
Watching that video also stirred thoughts about family and having my own in the future. Turning 21 has brought about a strong urge to find a life partner and start a family. While it’s good to think about these things, I realize I’m getting ahead of myself. I am still young and navigating university life. It’s important to control my emotions and focus on my current priorities.
Even though the idea of family and connection is powerful, I need to trust my journey and believe that love and opportunity will come when the time is right. It’s tough, but I must focus on what’s important now and trust that everything will eventually fall into place.