Context
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there’s this cutie at the gym and DC.
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When I first saw her in DC I thought she was cute but what caught my eyes was when I saw her in the treadmill
- she was smiling while running. As soon as I saw that cute face smiling while running, I knew I had to talk to her. I just had to wait for a good, natural opportunity
- that moment struck today. I was going to the line for getting food and she was at the end of the line with her friend so I ask if they’re in the line. Was hoping she was so I’d be able to talk to her to build some sort of rapport as we wait in line. Unfortunately she’s wasn’t.
- BUT, when I went to the line for gravy, her and her friend were there. This was the first time there was a line just for gravy so I asked them two that question to start the conversation
- So at this point I’ve had two quick interactions with them so I felt like it’s time to make my move.
- I don’t think I will ever receive an opportunity as good as this one. I was dressed up well, hair looking clean, I just ran to DC so my oxygen levels in my brain are high so I’m feeling very energetic, And most importantly, she’s with a friend so it makes things less ‘creepy’
- side note I feel like I’ve. I’m starting to let go of that limiting mindset/beliefs that I used to have just last month: Women problems
- So unfortunately the way I started might have been a little creepy. I said something along the lines of ” I’ve seen you run in a gym”. Unfortunately didn’t have eye contact so I couldn’t see your her body language when I was saying that. But from what I remember she did sound A little weirded out
- A justification would have eased that but my justification was just “I go like everyday”. There are several other ways I could have justified me seeing her run in the treadmills like “Im very observant/curious”.
- nonetheless, she mentions how she really enjoys running and cardio
- I then drop my call to sction and mention RIOT (running is our therapy club) And how running with people makes it more fun and stuff. I mentioned how we have an Instagram and also a group chat that I can invite her into
- she then responds with a ” That’s so cool! I’ll definitely check it out”.
- So yeah she did not ask for the Instagram handle or how to get into the group chat.
- As they were leaving since they finished putting the gravy, I desperately said “yeah just let me know”
- The way I said it and the whole vibe of me was giving off desperate vibes when I said that. As if I was hoping that this won’t be the last interaction I have with her
- if she had the slightest interest she would have done what the previous girl I invited to the group chat did
- I offered her two offers and she executed on none
- I’m not approaching her again. If I do it a second time that’s when I will come off as someone who’s trying to get something out of her
- The only situation where I will initiate a conversation or simply just acknowledging their existence (saying hi) is if we cross paths again
- if she’s interested in me or the club, she will start a conversation.
- I don’t think I will ever receive an opportunity as good as this one. I was dressed up well, hair looking clean, I just ran to DC so my oxygen levels in my brain are high so I’m feeling very energetic, And most importantly, she’s with a friend so it makes things less ‘creepy’